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What Did I Do Wrong . . .
What Did I Do Wrong . . .
 
We were so close together
Now so far apart
What happened in between
I can only feel in my heart
 
I wish you were here
To talk with me today
But I can't give a call
My body won't obey
 
Things seemed to be so perfect
Now they seem so wrong
I don't feel as though I know you
Where has our friendship gone
 
You used to be able to talk with me
About everything you felt
Now I feel I'm a stranger
My heart is starting to melt
 
We always used to talk
Until the middle of the night
I don't know what we talked about
But never once in a fight
 
I need you in my life
I need you as a friend
I need to laugh and cry with you
Forever 'till the end
 
I still don't know what has happened
Our friendship has lasted so long
But I can't help from wondering
What did I do wrong . . ?
 
( Thanks "Nimmika", for sending poem & Contribute to 4MintesPerDay...)

 
Poem by - Nimmika
 
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Posted by 4MinutesPerDay on Wednesday, December 28, 2005 at 19:23 Comments (3)

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Christmas Love . . .
Christmas Love . . .
 
Each December, I vowed to make Christmas a calm and peaceful experience.
 
I had cut back on nonessential obligations -- extensive card writing,
endless baking, decorating, and even overspending. Yet still, I found myself
exhausted, unable to appreciate the precious family moments, and of course,
the true meaning of Christmas.
 
My son, Nicholas, was in kindergarten that year. It was an exciting season
for a six year old. For weeks, he'd been memorizing songs for his school's
"Winter Pageant." I didn't have the heart to tell him I'd be working the
night of the production.
 
Unwilling to miss his shining moment, I spoke with his teacher. She assured
me there'd be a dress rehearsal the morning of the presentation. All parents
unable to attend that evening were welcome to come then. Fortunately,
Nicholas seemed happy with the compromise.
 
So, the morning of the dress rehearsal, I filed in 10 minutes early, found a
spot on the cafeteria floor and sat down. Around the room, I saw several
other parents quietly scampering to their seats. As I waited, the students
were led into the room. Each class, accompanied by their teacher, sat
cross-legged on the floor. Then, each group, one by one, rose to perform
their song. Because the public school system had long stopped referring to
the holiday as "Christmas", I didn't expect anything other than fun,
commercial entertainment -- songs of reindeer, Santa Claus, snowflakes and
good cheer. So, when my son's class rose to sing, "Christmas Love", I was
slightly taken aback by its bold title.
 
Nicholas was aglow, as were all of his classmates, adorned in fuzzy mittens,
red sweaters, and bright snowcaps upon their heads.
 
Those in the front row -- center stage -- held up large letters, one by one,
to spell out the title of the song.
 
As the class would sing "C is for Christmas", a child would hold up the
letter C. Then, "H is for Happy", and on and on, until each child holding up
his portion had presented the complete message, "Christmas Love".
 
The performance was going smoothly, until suddenly, we noticed her -- a
small, quiet, girl in the front row holding the letter "M" upside down --
totally unaware her letter "M" appeared as a "W".
 
The audience of 1st through 6th graders snickered at this little one's
mistake. But she had no idea they were laughing at her, so she stood tall,
proudly holding her "W".
 
Although many teachers tried to shush the children, the laughter continued
until the last letter was raised, and we all saw it together.
 
A hush came over the audience and eyes began to widen. In that instant, we
understood -- the reason we were there, why we celebrated the holiday in the
first place, why even in the chaos, there was a purpose for our festivities.
 
For when the last letter was held high, the message read loud and clear:
 
CHRIST WAS  LOVE . . .
 
 
 
Story by - Unknown
 
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Posted by 4MinutesPerDay on Tuesday, December 27, 2005 at 18:54 Comments (1)

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A Falling Star . . .
A Falling Star . . .
 
It's late at night and I'm thinking of you.
I miss you so much and I'm feeling so blue.
I see a bright star falling fast from the sky, and
I make a sweet wish for my very special guy/girl.
That he's/she's safe and just maybe even though he's/she's so far, that
there may be a chance that he/she sees the same star.
I can imagine us both, me here and you there, reaching for that star and
it bringing us nearer. If you look in the distance there's a starlit glow,
I'll be sending with love no matter where you go . . .
 
 
 
Poem by - Unknown
 
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Posted by Thoughts on Monday, December 26, 2005 at 18:57 Comments (0)

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Love . . .
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Posted by Asela on Monday, December 26, 2005 at 18:44 Comments (0)

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Men always have better friends . . .
Men always have better friends.. They will stand by you, no matter what . . .
 
Friends of Women..
 
A wife was not at home for a whole night. So she tells her husband, the
very next morning, that she stayed at her (girl) friend's apartment
overnight. So the husband calls 10 of her best (girl) friends and none
of them confirm that she was with them . . .
 

Friends of Men..
 
A husband was not at home for a whole night. So he tells his wife the very
next morning, that he stayed at his friend's apartment over night. So
the wife calls 10 of his best friends and 5 of them confirm that he stayed
at their apartments that night and another 5 are claiming that he is still
with them . . .
 
 
 
Story by - Unknown
 
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Posted by 4Minutes on Thursday, December 22, 2005 at 18:15 Comments (4)

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The 90/10 Principle . . .
The 90/10 Principle . . .
 
Have you read this before.. ?
 
Discover the 90/10 Principle. It will change your life (at least
the way you react to situations). What is this principle?
 
  10% of life is made up of what happens to you. 90% of life is
decided by how you react. What does this mean? We really have no control
over 10% of what happens to us. We cannot stop the car from breaking
down. The plane will be late arriving, which throws our whole schedule
off. A driver may cut us off in traffic. We have no control over this
10%. The other 90% is different. You determine the other 90%.
 
  How? By your reaction. You cannot control a red light., but you
can control your reaction. Don't let people fool you; YOU can control
how you react.
 
  Let's use an example.
You are eating breakfast with your family. Your daughter knocks
over a cup of coffee onto your business shirt. You have no control over
what just what happened.  What happens when the next will be determined
by how you react.
 
  You curse.  You harshly scold your daughter for knocking the cup
over.
 
  She breaks down in tears. After scolding her, you turn to your
spouse and criticize her for placing the cup too close to the edge of
the table. A short verbal battle follows. You storm upstairs and change
your shirt. Back downstairs, you find your daughter has been too busy
crying to finish breakfast and get ready for school. She misses the bus.
Your spouse must leave immediately for work.
 
You rush to the car and drive your daughter to school. Because
you are late, you drive 40 miles an hour in a 30 mph speed limit. After
a 15-minute delay and throwing $60 traffic fine away, you arrive at
school. Your daughter runs into the building without saying goodbye.
After arriving at the office 20 minutes late, you find you forgot your
briefcase. Your day has started terrible. As it continues, it seems to
get worse and worse. You look forward to coming home, When you arrive
home, you find small wedge in your relationship with your spouse and
daughter.
 
  Why? Because of how you reacted in the morning. Why did you have
a bad day?
    A) Did the coffee cause it?
    B) Did your daughter cause it?
    C) Did the policeman cause it?
    D) Did you cause it?
 
  The answer is " D".
  You had no control over what happened with the coffee.
  How you reacted in those 5 seconds is what caused your bad day.
Here is what could have and should have happened.
  Coffee splashes over you. Your daughter is about to cry. You
gently say, "It's ok honey, you just need, to be more careful next
time". Grabbing a towel you rush upstairs. After grabbing a new shirt
and your briefcase, you come back down in time to look through the
window and see your child getting on the bus. She turns and waves. You
arrive 5 minutes early and cheerfully greet the staff. Your boss
comments on how good the day you are having.
 
Notice the difference?
Two different scenarios. Both started the same. Both ended
different.
  Why? Because of how you REACTED.
You really do not have any control over 10% of what happens. The
other 90% was determined by your reaction.
 
Here are some ways to apply the 90/10 principle.
If someone says something negative about you, don't be a sponge.
Let the attack roll off like water on glass. You don't have to let the
negative comment affect you! React  properly and it will not ruin your
day. A wrong reaction could result in losing a friend, being fired,
getting stressed out etc.
 
How do you react if someone cuts you off in traffic?
Do you lose your temper?
Pound on the steering wheel? A friend of mine had the steering wheel fall off)
Do you curse?
Does your blood pressure skyrocket?
Do you try and bump them?

WHO CARES if you arrive ten seconds later at work? Why let the
cars ruin your drive?
Remember the 90/10 principle, and do not worry about it.
 
You are told you lost your job. Why lose sleep and get
irritated? It will work out. Use your worrying energy and time into
finding another job.
 
The plane is late; it is going to mangle your schedule for the
day. Why take out your frustration on the flight attendant? She has no
control over what is going on. Use your time to study, get to know the
other passenger.
 
Why get stressed out? It will just make things worse. Now you
know the 90-10 principle. Apply it and you will be amazed at the
results. You will lose nothing if you try it.
 
The 90-10 principle is incredible. Very few know and apply this
principle. The result? Millions of people are suffering from undeserved
stress, trials, problems and heartache.
 
We all must understand and apply the 90/10 principle.
 
It CAN change your life . . .
 
 
 
Story by - Unknown
 
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Posted by 4Minutes on Wednesday, December 21, 2005 at 18:32 Comments (0)

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Stabbed . . .
Stabbed . . .
 
When I saw the hurt I caused you
It was like a knife stabbed in my heart
Everyday you seemed to push it deeper
The pain intensified tearing my whole world apart
Then there was a ray of hope in this
You decided to come back to me
And you pulled from my heart the knife
You saved my world, you set me free
I thought the pain was finally over
Fading more with every single grin
But tonight your words brought back the pain
And my whole world feel apart again
I didn't want you to see me cry
I couldn't even stand to look at you
If you could just see me right now
You would know my love is true
So just to let you be aware
I can't take this pain anymore
So push that knife a little deeper for me
And try to forget my screams of horror . . .
 

 
Poem by - Unknown
 
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Posted by 4Minutes on Tuesday, December 20, 2005 at 18:16 Comments (1)

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